How do you know ‘I cannot be loved or loved in this way?’ Because inside yourself you masculine, mental, physical and feminine, emotional and spiritual self are in conflict. Your conflict creating confusion and suffering because you do not have the tools and techniques within you to guide, support and teach yourself how to love.
You feel a sense of loss because inside you, you do not know how to cope with your own feelings. Feeling of the good, bad and ugly of our life experiences which stop us from loving who I am in the present. Your key to learning about your feelings being is how do you know ‘I cannot be loved or loved in this way? Before you accept who I am in your life experiences? What stops you from accepting love? Why do you have a know intuitively you like or do not like another person? Why do you know instinctively you cannot trust another, or you do not like another person. Opposite being love at first sight, or intuitive knowing you can trust another?
As you have to learn you instinct is driven by you internal barometer or what I call your inherent knowing ‘I cannot be loved or loved in this way’.
This is what moves you closer to who you are or away from who you are inside your life experiences. This is what you have to learn to make sense of inside your instincts of touch, smell, sight, hearing, taste, because without your instincts then you would not only know fear but you would not know how to overcome your fears. Duality exists in the moment of separation you can call this choice. But you always have a path to walk and this path is what you have to learn to accept. You can call this path your journey but each path wherever you are in this moment will bring you back to your self-love. For self-love as you are learning is always the home of unconditional love.
You may fear loving who I am in this moment, but this moment will change and then you have to learn to give and receive love in the way in which reflects your highest good. Duality of choice and how you see your life experiences as the good, bad and ugly will always change when you learn how to grow, develop, manifest and transform your self-love. This is the purpose of self-love to give you a new meaning and purpose to loving who you are. For conflict, confusion, loss and much more is only ever connected in your self-love