Loving who you are does not automatically happen. Ever wondered why you heart aches, breaks, hurts, causing suffering? Because you heart knows you are not loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. You heart breaks for a reason and how do you know this? Because inherently inside you, you have an internal barometer which guides you to know ‘I cannot be loved or loved in this way’. You have to learn you are born with an ‘inherent knowing’ inside you that you have experienced a different quality of love. A love which you are searching for which you cannot find and which is causing you to breakdown inside your relationship with loving who you are. How do you know this? Because you feel lost, alone, lonely and bereft of love. How do these feelings manifest inside you? Because you feel stressed, anxious, questioning who am I? over and over again inside your life experiences which are causing you to breakdown and suffer.
What are you questioning inside you is ‘who am I? inside who I am? Your life experiences which have caused you to breakdown in your relationship with loving who you are. How do you know you are breaking down? Because you are unable to accept your self-love. You placed barriers, judgements, opinion, expectations, conditions, on you being loved. These conditions causing you to lose you insight into loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. Meaning you attract life experiences to you which cause you to suffer. Because you have to learn how you see yourself loving who you are is not how another sees you loving who you are. There is a breakdown in your relationship with loving who you are on both an internal and external level. In this reflection between you inner and outer worlds you learn to shut down to loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. What happens is this causes your masculine, mental, physical self and your feminine, emotional and spiritual self to fall out of love with loving who you are.
‘To unravel the mystery of loving who you are when you have to become passionate about your self-love’Jackie Cole Transformational Coach
As a transfromational coach I guide support and teach you, your tool of transfomation happens nowhere else but inside you self-love. In my article May 19th 2020 ‘Top 10 Tips to understanding a personal crisis. I guide you into my own life experience which have been the outcome to my searching over the last 21 years of understanding how you breakdown inside your life experiences. In fact all my blogs since I began in November 2019 have all been to this date about creating an environment to build your self-love from. Please have a read because the essential ingredient for transformation is all about constantly being in a self-reflection of your environment for transformation to take place. This is why you have to become passionate about loving who you are.
The outcome to my passion for self-love has to been to develop a bespoke toolkit. To enable you to learn to become your own transformational coach. For you to learn to follow your own inherent knowing ‘I cannot be loved or love in this way’. To guide, support, teach, coach, mentor, facilitate how you unlock your potential for personal growth and development. This is my passion for seeing you find your tools and techniques to love who you are in the way you seek to be loved is a gift.
‘Your gift is to create an environment to accept loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved’Jackie Cole -Transformational Coach
The key to your success is to transform your self-love because the home of unconditional love is inside your self-love. For self-love is what you are transforming to see inside yourself your soul-love. The qualities of your soul which are inherent within you. What is inherent within you is what enables you to love who you are in a way in which reflects good. Your masculine and feminine self have to see the good in loving who you are otherwise they stay separated. In my book ‘Filling the Void’, I describe my own life journey of how I learned how to fill the void between my masculine and feminine self. Creating my teachings inside ‘The Mirror of Reflection Coaching Toolkit’.
Each step of my toolkit is based on 12 step programmes to mix and match your learning to your own personal growth and development needs. To be able to see inside yourself how you give and receive love to coach your whole self to fall in love with loving who you are inside your life experiences you have separated from. To be able to give your self-love in the way you seek to be loved is your greatest gift because this is unconditional love. For unconditional love is how you accept inside who you are how to be loved. How you awaken to loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. Is how you piece together what you lost a connection too. To see inside you how to love who you are in the way in which reflects your highest good is what you are learning to accept.
Loving who I am is always a reflection of good when I see my true nature reflected to me. For you true nature is always inside you but you have to learn how to remember to love who you are unconditionally. For unconditional love is a reflection of what enables you to feel good about loving who you are as a reflection of good.
For more information on ‘The Mirror of Reflection Coaching Toolkit’. Please visit oneloveteachings.com or email Jackie at firstname.lastname@example.org