When I woke up to realise I was searching for ‘Enlightenment’ I had no idea what this word meant to me. How did I find out what I was searching for? Came to me in what I call my ‘Insight into my soul connections’. My 1,000 pieces of my jigsaw puzzle which shattered my illusion of what I believed love to be my break down through 1998. The truth is you do not just break down in your life experiences. Breaking down happens over lifetimes of experiences which have built up inside your patterns of behaviour. How do you know this? Because you become conscious inside your life experiences that not only how you are seeking to be loved. But how this reflects to you your pattern of behaviour which is either does or does not serve your highest good.
What do I mean by serving you highest good? Is you have an inherent knowing ‘I cannot be loved or love in this way. What I call your ‘inherent knowing’ grows inside your consciousness to make you question who am I? inside your life experiences. What breaks down inside you is your insight into your own self-reflection into your life experiences. Inside your self-reflection you are either able to or unable to accept your part in your life expediences. Who am I? is questioning who I am inside your own self-acceptance of how I seek to be loved. Being enlightened means you become more conscious of how you give and receive love in the way in which reflects your highest good. When you cannot see the good in loving who you are. Then you breakdown in your relationship between you mental, physical, emotional and spiritual self whether you are conscious of this or not. The key to unlocking your potential for personal growth and development is to learn where your relationship with your self broke down. What aspect of who you are stopped being able to give yourself love.
In my blog May 26th 2020 ‘Top 10 Tips for navigating self-love’. Self- love you learn is the foundation from which one love grows, develops, manifest and transforms inside your unconscious, conscious and super conscious self. To be able to accept you life experiences you have to become conscious of how you find a higher meaning and purpose to loving who you are. Enlightenment is how you live in a higher state of consciousness to love who you are in the way you seek to be loved. Why is this key to your success? Because how you accept what you have separated from, broken down in relationship too, is how you transform your life. When you life experience you have separated from stays separate from your self-love. Then you cause yourself pain and suffering to you are able to create an environment to transform your life. To learn to feel good about loving who you are happens nowhere else but inside your life experiences which ‘stop’ you from loving who you are.
‘The Mirror of Reflection Coaching Toolkit’ has four modules of learning. When I channelled down the foundation for my toolkit in 2002. I had no idea it would take me 18 years to learn all the word of my mirror to build a coaching toolkit. Each level of learning is founded on a mix and match selection of 12 step programmes of personal growth and development. Each learning tool is supported with tools and techniques to enable you to grow, develop, manifest, transform your unconditional love. What you have to learn is unconditional love is what you are searching for to enable you to build a relationship with your whole self. I guide, support and teach you how to take a ‘holistic approach’ to your personal growth and development for a reason. Because you have to learn that inside your life experience you have lost a connection to loving who you are. Your whole self inside your masculine, mental, physical, feminine, emotional and spiritual self has to learn to love who you are. Until your whole self accepts loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. Then you will constantly be falling back into your patterns of behaviour which do not serve your highest good. This is what you have to become conscious off to let go of your past which does not serve good. This is how you live in an enlightened state of consciousness for enlightenment means ‘seeing the good in loving who you are’.
This is why everyone who walks this earth is in a process of ‘Enlightenment’. Why? Because inherently you know you are ‘missing a connection to loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved’. How do you know this? Because you are on a journey of learning to love who you are. You can describe ‘enlightenment’ as being a process which every human being is evolving within in every moment of every day. Every human being whether they are conscious or not is co-creating with every human who walks this earth because we are all interconnected. How are you and I interconnected? Because your inner and outer worlds are reflecting what exists inside us all. Your masculine, mental, psychical, feminine, emotional and spiritual self. Is one big reflection which is teaching you how to love who you are in every moment of every day.
When you feel lost, alone, lonely and bereft of love it is because your whole self has lost a connection to loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. By breaking free of your patterns of behaviour, your cycle, circles, or processes which stop you from growing, developing, manifesting and transforming love. What enlightens you is to know how your masculine, mental, physical, feminine, emotional and spiritual self learn through your transformational coaching to fall in love. Because only you can see into your self what you fell out of love with loving. This is what a personal crisis is, a cry for help, because you do not know how to own or take responsibility for how your mirror of reflection causes you to breakdown inside your relationship between your masculine and feminine self.
You have to learn you are you own transformational coach. You are the only person who can see inside you what is calling to be loved. Life, friends. relationships with self and others, are you mirror into what is calling to be loved inside who you are. Loving who you are unconditionally is your true nature. How you give and receive love is what reflects your highest good and this is what you have to learn to follow, your unconditional love.
For more information on transformational coaching and the mirror of reflection coaching toolkit then please visit oneloveteachings.com or email firstname.lastname@example.org