As a young person I always had an inherent knowing I was ‘missing a connection to something’. What this connection was and how I would find what I was missing is what driven to keep me searching all my life and share my life experiences. Why? Because inside you and I lies the answer to knowing why ‘I cannot be loved or love in this way’. In my blogs of 2021 I am guiding, supporting and teaching you what you are missing a connection too is always your unconditional love. For inside your unconscious self lies the answers to ‘Filling the Void’ within.
What you have to learn as your own transformational coach is inside you, you have a compass to navigate your life. Your compass is your inherent knowing ‘I cannot be loved or loved in this way’. This is what breaks you down inside your unconscious self over and over again. Because inside your life experiences you are learning to accept as part of you, you know ‘I cannot be loved or loved in this way’. This is your 3rd Symbol of love you are searching for your compass of inherent knowing ‘I cannot be loved or loved in this way’. Your barometer to measure not only your own self-worth. But the worth of others which you are learning to love as part of who you are on your life journey.
In my life experiences you are in fact always in what I call a ‘Spiritual test’. What do I mean by this? Is you are testing yourself and others to learn to love who you are in the way in which reflects to you, your highest good. Love is a reflection inside who you are for your masculine and feminine self to fall in love. For your whole self when it has fallen out of love needs to learn to love who you are in the way you seek to be loved. What I soon learned after I broke down was, you don’t get out of bed and your addictions are healed. Your do not get out of bed and your past is forgotten and you don’t get out of bed and start loving who you are in a different way. That would be to easy and this is why life is a test of your inherent knowing in every moment of every day for your whole life. Ask yourself a question how often do you say to yourself, do I love who I am in the way I seek to be loved?
Life can and does for many off us make us question who am I? For someone like me this was a question from a child which had driven me to find answers. What broke down inside me was where I was seeking to find those answers. Because how I sort to be loved did not mirror my inherent knowing I had experienced a different quality of love. I always knew I was searching for something different my test was to find my ‘missing connection to something’. What I had no idea about was how my missing something would break down my relationship between my masculine and feminine self. Why? Because inside me my test was to learn to let go of my ego/mind and listen to my emotional and spiritual self. Which for 40 years I had lost a connection to loving and covered up inside my life experiences I had fallen out of love with loving.
My inherent knowing was ‘I cannot be loved or loved in this way’, but my test was to find the answers to why I knew this to share with others my books and teaching of ‘The Mirror of Reflection Coaching Toolkit’. What I had to learn as you have to learn you are the only person as your own transformational coach who can change how you give and receive love. This is how your life changes and when change happens you need your compass to learn how to navigate a new way of being inside your self-love-soul-love-god-love, unconditional love.
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