Our overriding question in life is why cannot find love? Why am I not loved in the way in seek to be loved? Why am I suffering? What do I feel like I am lost? Why can I never find love?
As I said in Part 1, love is a question which is never ending. For how we give meaning and purpose to love comes from our life experiences. No one knows what love means to them to their have lived their life experiences. This is why love cannot be found anywhere else but inside our life experiences we lost a connection to loving. What you have separated from holds the key to your personal growth and development. This is where you have to search to find a higher meaning and purpose to loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved.
Finding a higher meaning and purpose is what grows love. For how you grow love is how you build a relationship with your own self-reflection. Self -reflection is what enables you to grow, develop, manifest and transform your life experiences. For without transforming your life experiences, then you get stuck in a pattern of behaviour which does not serve your highest good. Good is what transforms your whole self. For how your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual self, make a connection to loving who you are how you grow love. For your whole self has to see yourself giving and receiving love in the way in which serves good.
When you stop seeing yourself giving and receiving love in the way in which reflects your highest good. Then you have to learn to see good in a different way. For what serves your highest good is how you transform your life experiences. Holding onto a past which does not serve good only creates a bigger void inside your whole self. Where does you void come from? When your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual self cannot see the good in loving who you are.
The void of separation happens inside who you are because you do not have an awareness, I am ‘One Love’. One Love breaks down when your whole self knows you are not loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. Through your self-belief, patterns of behaviour, self-talk, self-expression you are showing yourself you are not worthy of being loved by your whole self. Therefore, in your unconscious self you are shutting down to what is calling to be loved. Your whole self is always calling to be loved. You stop yourself from seeing your whole self, through your life experiences. Your stop seeing the truth and this is what you have separated from. Your truth of what you want to believe is the good, bad and ugly of our life experiences. But the reality of which you can only change your relationship with inside your self-love.
The truth is your self-love is what grows your connection between your whole self. The self which is calling to be loved in the way in which reflects your highest good. This is why I am an advocate of taking a holistic approach to our well building. For your whole self has to see inside yourself what is calling to be loved. When you find what is calling to be loved, then you have to learn to give and receive love in the way in which enables you to feel good.
For who you feel good is what transforms your life.
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