When setting yourself, a goal then you need to be SMART. Why? Because you need to know you can achieve your goal within your timescales you organise. What happens if you do not? Then you feel demotivated, lost, negative, unhappy, keep going around in a circle because you can’t find your way you of the dark, your ego, your mind thoughts that I am is not worth being loved. Goals are foundation to manifest a different way of loving who you are. The guide you to know what you are achieving is what is making you feel good about love.Read More
In my teachings of ‘The Mirror of Reflection Coaching Toolkit’ and my blogs ‘Recovery’ as I have learned is the key to unlocking our potential for personal growth and development. The question you may be asking yourself is what am I recovering? The answer in my experience is always you self-love which you have lost inside your life experiences you have lost a connection to loving.Read More
Loving who you are is what enables you to learn how to stop inside your life experiences to learn how to love who you are in the way you seek to be loved. This all starts with how you learn to express love in the way in which reflects to you, your highest good. Good is the premise from which your self-acceptance of who am I? is inside who I am, evolves into your life. Because what you learn you have separated from is what you have to learn to reconnect too, to love who you are in the way you seek to be loved.Read More
The COVID test as I am learning is one of transformation. What is transforming is how you and I see ourselves living in our world. What was your normal life in your past is being created with or without your permission into a different normal. How do you and I cope with our new normal? By learning ‘Transformational Coaching’ is all about how you ‘see’ yourself living in your world. Each change which happens impacts on your over all wellbeing whether you are conscious of this or not. Todays 10 tips of self-reflection into your own insight is to enable you to start to create an environment to build a new relationship with loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. Why not find yourself a note pad and pen and each day this week ask yourself a question of self-reflection from the list below:Read More
When I fell out of love with loving who I am many back in the early 90’s. It is very easy to fall into a blame culture that your life experiences are everyone else’s fault or problems. But the truth is to your learn to stop blaming other people and learn to own and take responsibility for your actions. Then you will continuously find yourself stuck in a pattern of behaviour which does not enable you to feel good about loving who you are. When you stop blaming others then you have to learn how to not only go inside yourself to ask yourself questions about your relationship with your self. You need your friends to mirror to you what you are searching for. Making new friends, establishing a different relationship with our existing friends. All creates an environment to enable you to build a relationship to what you has fallen out of love with loving who you are inside your life experiences.Read More
Augusts blogs are all about how you grow, develop, manifest and transform inside your talents and abilities to express your self-love. In my blog 26th May 2020 ‘Top 10 Tips for Navigating Self-Love’I sow the seeds in your consciousness. For you to reflect on self-love being your key to unlocking your potential for personal growth and development. What you have to accept as we have all experienced in 2020. Is what does loving who I am mean to me? In our time of lock down whether you have unconsciously, consciously or super consciously known you have been self-reflecting. Self-reflection is what you and I are doing in every moment of the day. Your life is built upon your talents and abilities to see inside your own mirror of self-reflection which I talk about more in my toolkit below.Read More
Your talents as I have been sharing in this weeks blogs Tuesday 11th August ‘Top 10 Tips for growing talent’ and Thursday 13th August ’11 Ideas for building talent’. Are all about guiding, supporting and teaching you how to create an environment to build a relationship with loving who you are to find your talents. Your talents as you are learning are your jewels and gems of inherent knowledge and wisdom which life inside your life experiences you have lost a connection to loving. How you build a relationship with loving who you are needs you to create your recipes for success. Recipes which you can rely on which are going to build a new foundation for loving who you are. If for example you have suffered a personal crisis and your illusion of what you believed loved to be shattered. Your foundation for self-love needs a new reflection for you to grow, develop, manifest and transform a different relationship with loving who you are. What you have to learn in your talents is you are growing your self-acceptance of what your love means to you. To find meaning and purpose then your love needs a new direction to find love.Read More
Have you ever thought about what qualifies another person to say they are spiritual?When I arrived at a crossroads in my life at Easter 2002. I have no comprehension of what having a spiritual aspect of ones life meant to me. In fact I would have described myself as an atheist needing or searching for a spiritual CV was the furthest from my comprehension. All I new was I was unhappy, questioning who am I? When I could not find the answers then I felt lost, alone, lonely and bereft of love. Why did I feel bereft of love? Because I could not find the love I was searching for inside my life experiences.Read More
Transformational Coaching is all about how you create an environment to build a relationship with loving who you are in the way you seek to be loved. Love as you learn through your life experiences ebbs and flows with your talents and abilities to love who you are as a reflection of your experiences you have fallen out of love with. Love is an energy and your self-love is your foundation from which your energy grows, develops, manifests and transforms inside you. Love is created through your consciousness of learning to accept your self-love. You do not have to experience a personal crisis to learn to love who you are. Loving who you are is your true nature which you are in constant reflection with. What you have to learn is loving who you is a process of ‘enlightenment’ which guides, supports and teaches you how to love.Read More
To see yourself as a entity of energy which is guided through your heart.
Learn how to put your heart as the ‘centre piece’ to living your life.
Stop and take time out of your daily routine to listen to your heart.
Focus your attention on building a relationship with your heart.
Learn how to create an environment to be guided by your heart to guide to reconnect to your qualities of self-love-soul-love-god-love-unconditional love.
Allow your heart to serve your highest good, even when you have lost your insight into seeing the good in loving who you are.
Learn how your passion, will, power, motivation, strength, courage, faith and much more is created in your heart.